Thanks all for the suggestion. I left work and went to the local grocery. The only vege tray they had made up looked like it should have been eaten yesterday, so I explained what I was doing and they made one up for me on the spot. It looked very nice and I made sure they knew how much I appreciated them doing it with no notice.
My friend wasn't home, they were at the cemetery, but her sister-in-law was there. I don't know her, but we chatted for a while and I left the tray and a card. Her SIL told me they have 80 immediate family members! And that doesn't include aunts and uncles or my friend's family, which is also very big. The family is very connected to law enforcement on several sides, so I'm sure someone will be watching the house during the funeral, but I'll keep the thought in mind.
I live close to my friend's house so I came home for lunch. I better get back to work...glad it's a quiet week