Had to go back to the stereo place - couldn't find the remote. The owner kept insisting I had to have it, and I knew I'd seen it, but it wasn't in the car and it wasn't in the box, the only two places it could have been. I drove over there, and his workers went through the car and the box - they couldn't find it. He opened a new box and gave me the remote, telling me he was sure I'd find it and to please bring it back when I did. As I was about to answer, his worker came in, sheepishly holding the remote. He found it in the trash can - apparently they'd dropped it and it got swept up and deposited in the trash can. So, all's well that ends well.