I totally wussbergered (is that the word?) on my Dad's 85th birthday present yesterday. After all the plans were moved two hours earlier and I no longer had time to shop for the gift certificate I wanted to buy, I asked my sister-in-law what they were getting for Dad, and it was this beautiful luggage set which they of course had in mind that if Dad refused it, Dad would just return it to them. So we decided that i would just contribute my share of the cost of the luggage set and we'd put all of our names on the card. Well, as he had promised, Dad wanted to give the gift back to all of us - but Mom stepped in and said she loved the luggage and if Dad didn't want it, she'd take it on behalf of both of them. And BTW, it was a lovely party, from the lamb to the pirogies.