3. KARMA IS MERELY A NUMBER ON A COMPUTER! If it UPSETS, HURTS, or DAMAGES you in any way, I think you are in dire need of psychological help. If you cannot tell the difference between technology and reality, that is a PROBLEM. On your death bed, will you worry about how many people like you, or what you think/say? I sincerely doubt it. This is similar.
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Sarah, you're one smart cookie.
Some folks seem to see karma as a form of validation of self-worth, rather than as an innocuous form of non-confrontational feedback.
The reactions are interesting when the feedback isn't accepted. Particularly when demands are made for folks to cease giving negative feedback. No one can dictate how others should react. The most you can do is be yourself and hope for the best reaction/response.
The whole POINT of the karma feature is to allow non-confrontational feedback. If you lose points, you're ticking somebody off. It's THAT simple.
I often ignore my disappearing karma, but I sometimes make comments when I want the person who takes it to know I give it to them freely. Obviously they NEED it more badly than I, and I'm sure they're reacting to something I've said. I'm blunt when I think I need to be, but I never mean to hurt feelings.
I'm sure a lot of karma is taken by folks who seek to avoid confrontation. Rather than take issue with something someone has written, they take karma. I can live with that. That's what it is for, and it should merit no stronger physical reaction than a bemused smile. It's never worth a distraught reaction.
I know I'm going to lose karma when I'm outspoken. I'm going to lose some because of this comment. But I don't care.
Like Sarah, I really tire of the whining about it.