Back from an interesting lunch, most of which was fun after we got the stuff out of the way. When the person saw that I wasn't going to be explaining myself or my reasons, and once I told her that if she was writing a book and I knew I was going to be in it, I would not do what she's doing, I'd just hope for the best, she seemed to be at peace with it. She said that she didn't really care if it was bad or good, but that's just not so, obviously. At one point she said, "Well, what if one of my friends reads it and says 'so you were in a relationship with Bruce tell me about THAT'" and I said, "Well, we can't wipe away history so if someone asks you about it tell them or don't, who cares?" After all that, we had a very nice time.