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Title: A DAY FOR ALL YOU MOTHERS OUT THERE IN THE DARK
Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 01:02:36 AM
Well, you've read the notes, the notes mentioned mothers and vaping, and now it is time for you to post until the vaping cows come home.
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 01:03:23 AM
And the word of the day is: FRABJOUS!
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 04:41:10 AM
Good morning, all!  Yesterday was a terrible day: I was getting ready to head down to City Center when my stomach started acting up,  I spent most of the remainder of the day napping and feeling puny.  I'm really bummed because I wanted to see ZORBA again and i missed seeing Rob Berman's parents who are two of my favorite people.

Today, I will head down to Toyland, work on a couple of Gentlemen, Be Seated! numbers - hopefully finish the long "From Atlanta To the Sea" and then edit whatever comes next, "Whatever Became of Beauty?," I think - and meet our DR ChasSmith there after the ZORBA matinee.  This should be my last major trip from Toyland.  I have two cartons of books waiting to come home and odds and ends.  I will keep things like pencil sharpeners, etc.there until I finish this editing job in the next two weeks.
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 04:45:15 AM
The new Adrianna Hoffstetter book arrived in yesterday's posts, and I thought I would begin it last night.  I read the blurb on the back cover, read the first page, and put the book down. I cannot wait to read this, and it's not going to be one, like Great Expectations, that I can read on and off on bus rides.  So, Adrianna has to wait till the middle of the week when I can just jump on for the ride and stay with it.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 05:12:05 AM
First post after Elmore after BK!
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 05:12:19 AM
Good morning, all.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 05:13:22 AM
Yesterday was a strange day. I actually had a few hours off, which meant they were filled with all of the stuff that I don't have time otherwise to do. But still no laundry or housecleaning. Oh well.
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Post by: singdaw on May 10, 2015, 05:17:35 AM
(http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a532/singdaw1/starry%20night3_zpsvuacrldq.jpg)
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Post by: singdaw on May 10, 2015, 05:20:16 AM
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, EVERYONE!!!!!


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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 05:21:54 AM
Book signing vibes for BK.

Health vibes for Elmore, Vixdad and anyone else in need.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 05:22:34 AM
Happy Mother's Day, all you mothers out there.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 05:23:25 AM
TCB, I'm off to Louisville on Tuesday to be there for my parents' 60th anniversary.
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 05:28:23 AM
I am off to Toyland!  I will miss having an office.

I have to win the lottery!
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 05:33:39 AM
Good morning, all.

I set the alarm so I'd be sure to get up and get a few things done before leaving for the Big Apple.  Could have used another hour of sleep, but hey, ain't that the story of our lives...

Coffee!
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 05:38:22 AM
ZORBA is going to be great.  The orchestra alone is worth the price of admission, but I'm very much looking forward to this cast.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 06:00:29 AM
I have never been a fan of chicken nuggets, but tofu ones sound good.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 06:02:00 AM
George, I am glad you clarified your mother requested Costco pizza ;D
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 06:14:35 AM
Well, here's a surprise.  Just got this email:

Congratulations! You have earned B&H Rewards points in the amount of $13.50, which has been issued to you as an E-Rewards Card...

I wish that decimal were in a different place, but I'll take it.
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 06:22:48 AM
DR MATTHEW I am sure it was a difficult decision, but it sounds best for you.  I also think they will miss you much more than you miss them.
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 06:23:45 AM
I do not understand the appeal of The Addams Family musical.....at least from just listening to the music.  Maybe on Broadway with Nathan Lane and Bebe Neuwirth.....but even then.....there are all of those terrible songs.
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Post by: Kerry on May 10, 2015, 06:25:42 AM
Good Morning and Happy Day!!!
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 06:25:59 AM
Here is a photo I created from a picture of my mom taken in 1956, and then another picture taken in 2004 when we went back to visit the house we had lived in years before....the little girl is not my mom.....it is part of the background I used.

Happy Mother's Day to all Mothers......

(https://scontent-ord.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xap1/v/t1.0-9/11113044_10206776491436062_1792882350150496207_n.jpg?oh=bc3919a924f7d8f1e07e1f113029c0b6&oe=55C6DAFE)
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 06:45:03 AM
DR JEANNE the symptoms are the same that my mother and sister and sister in law had when they had a problem with the sciatic nerve.  They all three went to this massage therapist and no longer had problems....so I am giving it a try.

Fortunately for me these two weeks were a time when I had nothing to do in particular.  It's just a painful way to spend a "vacation."
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 07:07:11 AM
I have found massage very helpful for sciatica problems.  PT also helped.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 07:07:51 AM
The photo is beautiful DR Jrand.
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 07:20:43 AM
Greetings from Toyland! I have four cartons waiting for DR ChasSmith.

While I was looking about, I found several McGlinn possessions that should go to the Library of congress, so I will send them an email today about getting the items to his collection.
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Post by: KevinH on May 10, 2015, 07:25:23 AM
Happy Mother's Day!
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Post by: KevinH on May 10, 2015, 07:26:52 AM
I do not understand the appeal of The Addams Family musical.....at least from just listening to the music.  Maybe on Broadway with Nathan Lane and Bebe Neuwirth.....but even then.....there are all of those terrible songs.





Maybe you heard this, but Nathan Lane told this story at Elaine Stritch's memorial service:  Elaine went to see him backstage after seeing The Addams Family and said "whatever they're paying you, it's not enough."
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Post by: Jennifer on May 10, 2015, 07:46:49 AM
Happy Mother's Day!!!!!!
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 08:16:23 AM
I do not understand the appeal of The Addams Family musical.....at least from just listening to the music.  Maybe on Broadway with Nathan Lane and Bebe Neuwirth.....but even then.....there are all of those terrible songs.





Maybe you heard this, but Nathan Lane told this story at Elaine Stritch's memorial service:  Elaine went to see him backstage after seeing The Addams Family and said "whatever they're paying you, it's not enough."

Love it!
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 08:16:34 AM
tWO!
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 10:09:16 AM
Greetings from City Center!
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 10:48:33 AM
I have the fan running at Toyland, but it's so hot and muggy that I'm ready for a nap. Maybe I need the AC?
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 11:04:08 AM
I'm up, I'm up - nine hours of sleep and I slept through the night.
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Post by: Ginny on May 10, 2015, 11:06:20 AM
Mother's Day greetings!  We celebrated last night with a lovely dinner at Middletown's Murphy's Landing (http://www.murphys-landing.com/).  This morning we went to Rob's church, to Smashburger for lunch, and then for a short visit with Mom.  Rob worked midnight-8am and had only catnapped, so he's now crashed.  Mary Linda is on her way home from Michigan.
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Post by: Ginny on May 10, 2015, 11:06:58 AM
I have the fan running at Toyland, but it's so hot and muggy that I'm ready for a nap. Maybe I need the AC?

Yep, the AC will help with the mugginess.  That's why we turned ours on a few days ago.
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Post by: Ginny on May 10, 2015, 11:39:48 AM
This is one of my favorite pictures of Mom & me, taken almost 9 years ago at my mother-in-law's 90th birthday party:

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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 11:59:43 AM
FELIZ DIA DE LAS MADRES!
(Alice and Wilma, sisters from another mister sitcom.)
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 12:09:02 PM
Intermission.  Beautiful and powerful.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 12:19:46 PM
Here's something for the stylish mom of the 1970s and it was mail-order too, no waiting in long lines:
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Post by: Ginny on May 10, 2015, 12:22:19 PM
Intermission.  Beautiful and powerful.

Wish we were there to visit with you during intermission!
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 12:33:20 PM
Good afternoon Had a great time with the family yesterday
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 12:37:02 PM
It was a very long day, though. I was hoping to sleep late, but the first thunderstorm of the day came through at 5:18 AM and Ricky came running into my room and jumped on the bed, then on me. He's afraid of thunder.   I couldn't get back to sleep so I got up, had coffee and was just thinking about going back to sleep when Paul called.  So I went out and had more coffee. Came home and was still tired and not feeling too well.  I laid down and 20 minutes later mom called.   I tried to go back to sleep and 20 minutes later the weather radio went off with a tornado watch. So I got up. I'm thinking of trying a nap again. 
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 12:38:34 PM
Haven't had time to read the book yet.   I looked at it, looks like it will be good, just haven't had time to read it
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 12:39:15 PM
Helper has come and gone and next up is Sami, mom, and Alby.
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 12:39:26 PM
I think there's another storm heading this way, but I"m just to tired to worry about it  Think I'll go take a nap
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 12:40:24 PM
The Oxford comma - I like it.  The guy who proofs the liner notes for the Paramount titles always removes it.  Here is an example of the Oxford comma:  Sami, mom, and Alby.  Without: Sami, mom and Alby.
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 12:46:01 PM
I always use the Oxford comma. I think it is still included in most stylebooks.
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 12:46:21 PM
Thanks DR JANE, I hope so.
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 12:46:43 PM
DR KEVIN H - Elaine was right.....but I imagine it was a lot of $$$$.
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Post by: Michael on May 10, 2015, 12:59:56 PM
Good afternoon to all
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Post by: Michael on May 10, 2015, 01:01:31 PM
Just taking it easy for the next three days. Can't take any pain meds before the operation
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Post by: Michael on May 10, 2015, 01:05:14 PM
I think vapor smoking should be regulated like tobacco. There are also cigar smoke places too which I cannot walk by because of the smell
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 01:34:19 PM
Only illiterates ignore the Oxford comma!  I love it!


I've been through both Moross scores; I thought the long one would never end. And DR ChasSmith should be heading to his car after ZORBA about now.  Perfect timing.

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Post by: Ginny on May 10, 2015, 01:47:05 PM
Another Oxford comma fan checking in!
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 01:48:11 PM
The Oxford comma:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 01:49:23 PM
Comma comma comma chameleon:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 01:51:00 PM
On Mother's Day, remember to use the Oxford comma, period:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 01:51:38 PM
Or this may happen:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 01:57:52 PM
OOPSIE!:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 02:02:35 PM
More, on commas, or, is it, moron commas?:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 02:04:13 PM
Something DR singdaw would post in honour of the Oxford comma:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 02:09:12 PM
There's even an Oxford Comma Coffee Mug for sale:

http://www.zazzle.com/pro_oxford_comma_classic_white_coffee_mug-168841604698393224
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:15:20 PM
Hello, everyone.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:15:57 PM
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to all our DRs who are mothers!

May you have a lovely day.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:17:19 PM
Jack, it's good you have an idea of what's bothering you and where to go for help. Have you seen this therapist before?

Vibes the therapist is able to get rid of the pain.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:17:44 PM
Well, you've read the notes, the notes mentioned mothers and vaping, and now it is time for you to post until the vaping cows come home.

You saw COWS vaping??
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:19:03 PM
HEALTH VIBES to Larry, Vixdad, Michael, and all DRs!
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 02:19:10 PM
Cows were the first to make vaping popular.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:19:16 PM
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ to Cilla.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:20:06 PM
Here is a photo I created from a picture of my mom taken in 1956, and then another picture taken in 2004 when we went back to visit the house we had lived in years before....the little girl is not my mom.....it is part of the background I used.

Happy Mother's Day to all Mothers......

(https://scontent-ord.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xap1/v/t1.0-9/11113044_10206776491436062_1792882350150496207_n.jpg?oh=bc3919a924f7d8f1e07e1f113029c0b6&oe=55C6DAFE)

Nicely done, Jack.
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 02:21:21 PM
Had a good work session creating at least the idea of some dance music for a Welcome to My World number.  Sami's been working hard with a seventy-year-old tap teacher who, according to her, has danced with Gene Kelly.  I saw the video of her rehearsing - the steps are very cute, but I'm bringing in my pal Cheryl Baxter-Ratliff to help make it an actual theatrical number.  Cheryl is one of the go-to 42nd Street people to recreate Gower's choreography and she's a great tapper.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:22:03 PM


This is one of my favorite pictures of Mom & me, taken almost 9 years ago at my mother-in-law's 90th birthday party:

Nice photo, Ginny. It's nice that it's just the two of you.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:29:50 PM
I don't know why Ginny's photo isn't in the last post.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:31:12 PM
Oxford commas? I always use them. I spent many years doing technical writing, where clarity was my highest priority, and writing is much clearer with that extra comma.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:32:49 PM
Had a good work session creating at least the idea of some dance music for a Welcome to My World number.  Sami's been working hard with a seventy-year-old tap teacher who, according to her, has danced with Gene Kelly.  I saw the video of her rehearsing - the steps are very cute, but I'm bringing in my pal Cheryl Baxter-Ratliff to help make it an actual theatrical number.  Cheryl is one of the go-to 42nd Street people to recreate Gower's choreography and she's a great tapper.

A seventy-year-old tap teacher? My, my. He/she must be in great shape. And SLENDER!
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 02:36:09 PM
I only know her from taking my mother to see her DR JEANNE.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:36:10 PM
Re the Janis story, I believe Janis is leaving for Europe either today or tomorrow. I didn't mention it before, but Janis is legally blind. She has some vision and, aside from not being able to drive, seems to do quite well on her own. I think a couple people will be accompanying her on this trip.
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Post by: Jrand74 on May 10, 2015, 02:36:43 PM
Tonight is the NEXT TO LAST episode of MAD MEN.
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:37:22 PM
I only know her from taking my mother to see her DR JEANNE.

I hope she's able to help you. I've had my vacation time interrupted by health issues myself. Most frustrating!
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Post by: Jeanne on May 10, 2015, 02:41:20 PM
TTFN.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 02:59:54 PM
1973 Merv Christmas show!
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 03:38:17 PM
This is one of my favorite pictures of Mom & me, taken almost 9 years ago at my mother-in-law's 90th birthday party:



Lovely, lovely ladies.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 03:45:11 PM
I am slowly getting the hang of my new computer.  I really haven't had much time to do it.  This morning I baked brownies and organized stuff, found more things for goodwill, and did 3 loads of wash.  Just as we were about to leave for the dump & goodwill, Craig called.  Just as we were about to leave again, Bryan called ;D

I am doing another load of laundry.  I have cookies I should bake.  I might wait until morning.  I need to leave early and take all the food possible to a friend's house.  What she won't use she will take to the food store for the needy.  It is going to her first as she will take my open, but perfectly good, containers.

Some of the brownies are for my friend and her husband.  These are the leaders of our hiking group.  He usually drives so I occasionally take them cookies.  Wednesday he said he will miss my cookies :)
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 03:47:26 PM
Time to see if I can fit everything I have out to pack into one large suitcase.  If not, something will have to be left behind.
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 03:53:10 PM
Back from a cup of chili and chicken tenders.
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Post by: Ginny on May 10, 2015, 03:59:35 PM
...and I'm back from a 2-hour nap here in my recliner.

Thank you to DRs Jeanne and Jane fir the comments about my photo.  The more I think about it, the surer I am it was taken by my mother-in-law herself.
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Post by: Kerry on May 10, 2015, 04:03:49 PM
Happy Mom Day!
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 04:38:01 PM
Hmmmm.  I can't say that Mother's Day message would have made me proud of my kind-lol
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 04:39:22 PM
I am eating instead of packing.  Keith has put what is ready to go into the car into it, and there doesn't seem to be any room for my suitcase.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 04:39:46 PM
Thank goodness there was one last little bit of Harvey's Bristol Cream Sherry to finish.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 04:41:45 PM
I do have a full, unopened, bottle.  Obviously I don't have room for it.  That is ok because I have a special home for it.  My friend who recently lost her husband, and lost her mother only six months ago, will be pleased when I give it to her.  It was her mother's favorite drink and every once in awhile she likes to have a little and toast her mother.  I should have dropped it off for Mother's Day, only I wasn't thinking that far ahead.  I will give it to her on Tuesday when I see her for my last book group. 
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Post by: Ginny on May 10, 2015, 04:55:48 PM
DR Jane, following your move is very interesting to me.  Having lived in the same town for almost 42 years, and the same house for 27, I can't imagine what it must be like.

Vibes that this week goes as smoothly as possible!
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 05:00:59 PM
LOL, I am glad to be entertaining.  I admit, I am not bored, panicked but not bored :)
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 05:01:34 PM
I think we will need a small trailer.  Keith desperately doesn't want one.
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 05:21:31 PM
Thanks to our DR ChasSmith, my four cartons are home and I took him to dinner at Artie's to thank him. It's late, and the Real Housewives are calling.

It's been a good day.
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 05:42:55 PM
I was a semi bad boy and got some halvah - I don't eat it very often but every now and again it looks good to me and I revisit it.
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Post by: Jennifer on May 10, 2015, 05:49:05 PM
The Oxford comma - I like it.  The guy who proofs the liner notes for the Paramount titles always removes it.  Here is an example of the Oxford comma:  Sami, mom, and Alby.  Without: Sami, mom and Alby.

I would do the second.
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Post by: KevinH on May 10, 2015, 06:00:13 PM
I must organize.  Putting playbills in order is an all-day job in itself.
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Post by: KevinH on May 10, 2015, 06:00:48 PM
I think I should go back to using the "Oxford comma."
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Post by: elmore3003 on May 10, 2015, 06:31:23 PM
I am tired.  Very tired.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 06:32:45 PM
I was a semi bad boy and got some halvah - I don't eat it very often but every now and again it looks good to me and I revisit it.

Marbled?
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 06:34:15 PM
My only connection to Broadway just ended, "Theater Talk" on PBS. Oh well, on to The Simpsons, and Bob's Burgers, and whatever else may appear. What's funny about Bob's Burgers is that of the 4 lead female characters, only 1 is voiced by a bona fide woman, Kristen Schaal.

Which in a strange way makes me think of the late, versatile character actors, Richard Schaal, and Richard Stahl.

AntennaTV is playing a "One Day At A Time" marathon. Talk about a TV show that hasn't aged well IMHO. I think it was a stretch for me to have ever watched it first run, but that may have been Valerie Bertinelli's fault.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 06:34:45 PM
I was a semi bad boy and got some halvah - I don't eat it very often but every now and again it looks good to me and I revisit it.

Marbled?

Halvah and Harvey :-\
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 06:35:36 PM
That was one of Paul Anka's rejected songs: "You're Halvah M'Baby!"
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 06:36:10 PM
I loathe the Oxford comma.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 06:41:21 PM
Starting to watch Elizabeth Taylor in Elephant Walk.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 06:42:13 PM
I loathe the Oxford comma.

That puts you in the Harvard camp. Also, the Oxford PR Dept. Only Oxford Press supports its eponymous comma.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 06:42:50 PM
Starting to watch Elizabeth Taylor in Elephant Walk.

Is that a set up to a joke? I can't help myself.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 06:43:39 PM
It's my alter ego: Sy Castic.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 06:56:55 PM
I was a semi bad boy and got some halvah - I don't eat it very often but every now and again it looks good to me and I revisit it.

Marbled?

Halvah and Harvey :-\

Bruce wouldn't like it but I think Harvey's would go very well with Halvah.

Russ and Daughters had delicious marbled Halvah when I was in NY.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 06:57:47 PM
I have loaded all but one bag into the car for my morning delivery of food.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 06:58:00 PM
I can bake & clean before I go.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 06:58:11 PM
Starting to watch Elizabeth Taylor in Elephant Walk.

Is that a set up to a joke? I can't help myself.

I wish. I'm about 30 minutes into and I'm not liking the melodrama of it all. And the bad cinematography.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 06:59:15 PM
When I return home I will pack my suitcase now that Keith has ordered a 4x8 foot enclosed trailer.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 07:02:56 PM
I know we posted about Dickens, Elmer Bernstein, and Anthony Newley on other days, but here's a clip of a movie that ties them all together: Mister Quilp (portrayed by Newley), which was originally titled the same as the Dickens novel, The Old Curiosity Shop. Not sure why the name was changed.

https://youtu.be/3BO4iYRrTMU
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 07:04:23 PM
I heard this remix on the radio:
https://youtu.be/Zx1_6F-nCaw
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 07:25:14 PM
Catfinger:
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 07:25:26 PM
I know we posted about Dickens, Elmer Bernstein, and Anthony Newley on other days, but here's a clip of a movie that ties them all together: Mister Quilp (portrayed by Newley), which was originally titled the same as the Dickens novel, The Old Curiosity Shop. Not sure why the name was changed.

https://youtu.be/3BO4iYRrTMU


I want to see this movie. When it comes to the novel, I was in the Oscar Wilde camp and laughed when Little Nell died. Not exactly laughed, maybe but certainly not upset by it. Some of Dickens' worst writing.
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 07:27:51 PM
I gotta tell you.
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 07:28:00 PM
Guess I'll watch Mad Men now.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 07:30:10 PM
Five!
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 07:33:31 PM
Nothing in Elephant Walk appears to have been filmed together. All of the "on location" shots have studio shots tacked on, and they have not been pieced together very well at that. The colors don't match and the cut outs of Elizabeth Taylor or Dana Andrews are sloppy, to say the least.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 07:45:49 PM
Here's a very funny clip from The Show Formerly Known as The Martin Short Show (1995) in which Martin plays Ringo Starr in the Dean Stockwell role in an imagined Richard Lester version of A Hard Day's Journey Into Night, a mix-up of the Eugene O'Neill/Sidney Lumet movie and the Beatles' movie:

https://youtu.be/gqN3TL0qqSg?t=9m
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 07:46:14 PM
And I am finally home after sitting in road repair traffic for an extra hour.  What, they couldn't take one night off?  I mean, it's only the busiest travel day of the year next to Thanksgiving.  Oy and vey.
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 07:47:47 PM
ZORBA, for all the pans (no pots, just pans), is intensely beautiful, and today's sights and sounds were thrilling.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 07:52:39 PM
ZORBA, for all the pans (no pots, just pans), is intensely beautiful, and today's sights and sounds were thrilling.

I love that score. Most of the reviewers just didn't get it. They didn't get it when it first opened. They didn't get it in the revival. And they seem to get it less now. 
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 07:54:47 PM
I wasn't sure it could happen, but it did -- there were several parking spots available on the Toyland block, something heretofore unknown, and virtually unimaginable.  Yes, it was a late Sunday afternoon, but every other street was packed, so imagine my delight when 27th Street welcomed me with open arms.

So, as you have heard, DR Elmore and I had a successful trip from there back to the Upper West Side, followed by a delightful repast at Artie's.  No Jewish foods today.  We both were hungry for a cheeseburger deluxe, and we inhaled them.  Hmm.... can you vape a cheeseburger deluxe?
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 07:56:13 PM
Parking, you see, is something we talk about here in the wilds of New York City. 
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 07:59:07 PM
I wasn't sure it could happen, but it did -- there were several parking spots available on the Toyland block, something heretofore unknown, and virtually unimaginable.  Yes, it was a late Sunday afternoon, but every other street was packed, so imagine my delight when 27th Street welcomed me with open arms.

So, as you have heard, DR Elmore and I had a successful trip from there back to the Upper West Side, followed by a delightful repast at Artie's.  No Jewish foods today.  We both were hungry for a cheeseburger deluxe, and we inhaled them.  Hmm.... can you vape a cheeseburger deluxe?

I'd give it a try.
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 08:05:05 PM
Well, Artie's serves a good one.  The fries were delicious, too, and I very much like their cole slaw and the half sour pickles.
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Post by: singdaw on May 10, 2015, 08:11:30 PM
DR ChasSmith, I am so grateful that you could help out DR elmore3003 today. And take in a great show, besides!
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Post by: singdaw on May 10, 2015, 08:12:01 PM
Put me in the Oxford Comma lover's camp. Always have. Always will.
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:12:21 PM
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ to Cilla.

Thanks, I slept for 3 hours after turning off my phone...
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Post by: ChasSmith on May 10, 2015, 08:13:53 PM
Oh yes, the Oxford comma.  Absolutely.  Count me in.

I never even knew about it until several years ago.  We were taught to do without, and do without we did.  The discovery of the Oxford comma was a joy and I adopted it immediately.
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:14:32 PM
Time to see if I can fit everything I have out to pack into one large suitcase.  If not, something will have to be left behind.

Or you could get another suitcase
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:18:58 PM
I was taught to use the Oxford comma, but didn't know until today that it was called the Oxford comma
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:21:20 PM
Wow, was I exhausted earlier today.  That three hour nap made me feel somewhat human again
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 08:22:15 PM
I was never taught grammar. I learned it by studying foreign languages. When I entered journalism, I learned Associated Press style, which shuns excessive, unnecessary punctuation in the cause of writing that is clearer. So, it is the anti-Christ of the Oxford comma.

The two books I wrote used the Oxford comma, as most books do. Including it, after more than 30 years of writing without it, was extremely difficult.
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:23:14 PM
I wanted to go and see my neighbor to give her my condolences and maybe take a vegetable tray to have some healthy muchies, but by the time I was ready to go over the house was dark and only one car in the drive.  I think she's probably with her kids.  They all live here in town so she'll have several places to go.   
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:25:58 PM
I will really miss Louie.   He was the nicest guy.  They are retired but have an antique and online book business.  They go to flea markets and sell things.  I loved chatting with him about their lastest find at a garage sale or to see how he had restored something.  They love nature and he was delighted when I recently gave them a photo of the Cooper's Hawk.  So sad.  He and Sue had been married 40 years.  I'm glad she has her kids around.  I found out by reading his obit in the paper. 
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:26:40 PM
I hope Sue stays next door, but you never know. 
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 08:28:07 PM
Sorry for your loss, Cillaliz.
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:29:10 PM
I can't wait to sleep tonight
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Post by: Cillaliz on May 10, 2015, 08:29:44 PM
There were tornados about an hour from here today.  Always sad when that happens.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 08:36:08 PM
I was never taught grammar. I learned it by studying foreign languages. When I entered journalism, I learned Associated Press style, which shuns excessive, unnecessary punctuation in the cause of writing that is clearer. So, it is the anti-Christ of the Oxford comma.

The two books I wrote used the Oxford comma, as most books do. Including it, after more than 30 years of writing without it, was extremely difficult.

Then, again, is the comma obsessed writer. When I worked at various jobs I always wound up being a proof reader. Not sure if I had a "proof reader" sign on my back, but that fell to me. I didn't mind, but it was at times disheartening that people who were supposedly more intelligent than me, with several higher degrees, yadda yadda yadda, couldn't write and had the worst grammar and syntax. I'm a bit of a grammar snob I guess.

I had an English teacher in junior high who was great. She asked all of us to memorize the pronouns, but to find a creative way to do it. Then, we had to present our mnemonic device to the class. Everyone liked mine. I set the pronouns to the Triumphal March from Aida. It was catchy and made them easy to remember.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 08:47:55 PM
I was never taught grammar. I learned it by studying foreign languages. When I entered journalism, I learned Associated Press style, which shuns excessive, unnecessary punctuation in the cause of writing that is clearer. So, it is the anti-Christ of the Oxford comma.

The two books I wrote used the Oxford comma, as most books do. Including it, after more than 30 years of writing without it, was extremely difficult.

Then, again, is the comma obsessed writer. When I worked at various jobs I always wound up being a proof reader. Not sure if I had a "proof reader" sign on my back, but that fell to me. I didn't mind, but it was at times disheartening that people who were supposedly more intelligent than me, with several higher degrees, yadda yadda yadda, couldn't write and had the worst grammar and syntax. I'm a bit of a grammar snob I guess.

I had an English teacher in junior high who was great. She asked all of us to memorize the pronouns, but to find a creative way to do it. Then, we had to present our mnemonic device to the class. Everyone liked mine. I set the pronouns to the Triumphal March from Aida. It was catchy and made them easy to remember.

I think my professors as I worked on my master's degree were, by and large, terrible writers. That might not have been bad if I had been focused on astrophysics or molecular engineering, but I was studying a good deal of literature and writing.
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 08:51:58 PM
Part of my current job involves using grammar, and many of my co-workers cannot punctuate a sentence.

It's also occasionally hard because the writing part of the job involves using conversational speech, which is often ungrammatical. As far as my writing goes, "whom" is never used. Write around it, etc. Social politics and conversation have also made it impossible to use a singular pronoun anymore. We use "their" instead of "he or she."
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Post by: John G. on May 10, 2015, 08:54:35 PM
Listening to a fascinating interview with Yo-Yo Ma on a DVD of a show called "Extraordinary Minds" with Howard Gardner as host.

Far more rewarding than "Elephant Walk."
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 08:57:37 PM
I had a teacher in college, she wasn't a professor, but rather a lecturer. She taught a class on writing. Boy, was she tough! We started the semester with 30 students. By the end there were only 4 of us left. The syllabus was deceiving. We would get a reading assignment of maybe a chapter length from a textbook. She would chose something from one of the major disciplines so we had to actually read a work written at a reading level of 13th grade, not the usual which is written at elementary school level. She would ask us very pointed questions about the reading. We had to answer them in an essay no longer than 3 typewritten pages. At the start of the semester, many fell into the wrong impression that this would be a cinch. It was far from that. I'd hand in a paper that I thought was pretty good. She would return it completely marked up front and back. The next assignment was given along with the previous paper that had to be rewritten. Even though these were maximum 3 page papers, the demand was high and the writing turned out to be even more difficult. She was a great teacher, though, and I am always very happy that I went through that grinder.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 09:01:17 PM
When I was in graduate school, I became friends with some foreign students who were being taught "conversational" English which I abhorred. They were being given lessons in bad English and were told that's how Americans speak. I had to intervene and show them that normal people don't speak like Vinny Barbarino or some dummy on a sitcom. That whole situation was very upsetting to me because these students were learning a bad form of phonetic English and could not make sense out of written English. I thought this was such a great disservice to them.
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Post by: bk on May 10, 2015, 09:02:19 PM
I have one rule when writing dialogue or prose in my novels - if punctuation stops the flow and rhythm of the sentence, out it goes and I don't care what's wrong or right.  Sometimes commas just make the eye keep stopping if they're overused.  I try to be correct when it's not harmful, but sometimes a dangling participle is better than the alternative because the alternative is not the way people speak.  I didn't give a crap about it in 2001 with Benjamin Kritzer (in fact, I pulled out so much proofer punctuation in that book it's not even funny - well, it made what was funny actually funny), and I give less a crap about it now.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 09:06:24 PM
Being from New York, I always made sure that I said words properly and listened to great announcers and narrators. I later found out that some of the finest voice over actors/narrators were from Brooklyn, for the very same reason I listened to them. They wanted to be able to sound unlike the stevedore from the docks. Sure, once that "bad" speech pattern is there, you can take it on again, but for me it's like someone asking me to do my impression of Cagney or Bogart. To this day, people can't quite place where I am from. I like that. It's not like when people hear Fran Drescher, you automatically know she's from Queens. I'm not so easy to place, even though I was born in Queens.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 09:08:14 PM
I have one rule when writing dialogue or prose in my novels - if punctuation stops the flow and rhythm of the sentence, out it goes and I don't care what's wrong or right.  Sometimes commas just make the eye keep stopping if they're overused.  I try to be correct when it's not harmful, but sometimes a dangling participle is better than the alternative because the alternative is not the way people speak.  I didn't give a crap about it in 2001 with Benjamin Kritzer (in fact, I pulled out so much proofer punctuation in that book it's not even funny - well, it made what was funny actually funny), and I give less a crap about it now.

Yes, there's a musicality that's lost when forcing prose to adhere strictly to the rules. You are a musician so that flow would be readily apparent in your inner voice. I always hear everything in my mind's ear first.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 09:20:15 PM
I was just reading about the origin of the phrase ". . . like the dickens" which I had assumed to relate back to Charles. Shakespeare first used this phrase in the Merry Wives of Windsor. Dickens is what is known as a "minced-oath" or a way to swear and cuss without using a true blasphemy against God, such as Gadzooks! or Jiminy Cricket!* My favorite was Redd Foxx's way to say the 50 cent swear word without really saying it, "You motherfather!"

*Strange as it may seem, but Jiminy Cricket is an Old English euphemism for Jesus Christ.
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Post by: TCB on May 10, 2015, 09:45:41 PM
Well, Artie's serves a good one.  The fries were delicious, too, and I very much like their cole slaw and the half sour pickles.



Which half is sour?
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Post by: TCB on May 10, 2015, 09:56:10 PM
I was taught to use the Oxford comma, but didn't know until today that it was called the Oxford comma


Ditto!
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 09:59:05 PM
Well, Artie's serves a good one.  The fries were delicious, too, and I very much like their cole slaw and the half sour pickles.

Which half is sour?

MMMM pickle.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 10:03:36 PM
Parking, you see, is something we talk about here in the wilds of New York City. 

Congats on your good luck.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 10:04:50 PM
DR ChasSmith, I am so grateful that you could help out DR elmore3003 today. And take in a great show, besides!

Ditto!
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 10:19:30 PM
DR Cilla I am sorry about your neighbor.
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Post by: Jane on May 10, 2015, 10:21:40 PM
Keith found a large old keepsake box of mine.  We trashed half the stuff in there :)
On the upside, it is whete I had put my Heifetz ticket stubb.
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 10:24:35 PM
Keith found a large old keepsake box of mine.  We trashed half the stuff in there :)
On the upside, it is whete I had put my Heifetz ticket stubb.

That's great! You won't haveta Jascha about it any more  8)
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 10:34:10 PM
Here's something to look forward to, tomorrow that is:
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Post by: Dan M on May 10, 2015, 10:36:01 PM
I think DR singdaw would approve:
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:37:09 PM
I do not understand the appeal of The Addams Family musical.....at least from just listening to the music.  Maybe on Broadway with Nathan Lane and Bebe Neuwirth.....but even then.....there are all of those terrible songs.



Maybe you heard this, but Nathan Lane told this story at Elaine Stritch's memorial service:  Elaine went to see him backstage after seeing The Addams Family and said "whatever they're paying you, it's not enough."

D'oh! :o

;)
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:38:10 PM
This is one of my favorite pictures of Mom & me, taken almost 9 years ago at my mother-in-law's 90th birthday party:

(http://www.haineshisway.com/smf/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=4340.0;attach=6647;image)

Lovely picture, Ginny.
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:41:17 PM
George, I am glad you clarified your mother requested Costco pizza ;D

My mom is the only one who likes the combo.  My dad and I like the pepperoni, and my sister and niece like the cheese.  I had a couple of slices each of the pepperoni and cheese.  My mom took home the four slices of the combo pizza and I took home what was left of the pepperoni and the cheese pizzas.
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:43:57 PM
Tonight is the NEXT TO LAST episode of MAD MEN.

I'm recording it.  I wanted to ketchup on all the posts (which I now have), as well as look for some videos of songs that I think my friend Jamie should sing.  She's the one who had the concert on Friday that I went to after having dinner with my friends Margo and Marsha.
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:44:25 PM
DR Jane, following your move is very interesting to me.  Having lived in the same town for almost 42 years, and the same house for 27, I can't imagine what it must be like.

Vibes that this week goes as smoothly as possible!

~~~Ditto!!~~~
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:45:29 PM
Catfinger:

(http://www.haineshisway.com/smf/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=4340.0;attach=6672;image)

HA HA HA HA HA!! :))
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:51:11 PM
Parking, you see, is something we talk about here in the wilds of New York City.

A few years ago, I'd read this story about this family that bought an apartment in NYC (Manhattan).  It was also about how expensive everything is in New York.  When they bought the apartment, they had the option to buy a parking space for only $160,000!  ONLY...it is actually real estate, you know! 
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:51:37 PM
Anyway, they thought that they could easily park on the streets but realized that they made the wrong choice.  By the time they did buy the parking space, they paid over $260,000!  Just for the parking space!
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 10:53:19 PM
I just did a search and came across this article...The $1 million parking space (http://nypost.com/2012/05/20/the-1-million-parking-space/)!
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Post by: George on May 10, 2015, 11:02:35 PM
I was never taught grammar. I learned it by studying foreign languages. When I entered journalism, I learned Associated Press style, which shuns excessive, unnecessary punctuation in the cause of writing that is clearer. So, it is the anti-Christ of the Oxford comma.

The two books I wrote used the Oxford comma, as most books do. Including it, after more than 30 years of writing without it, was extremely difficult.

Then, again, is the comma obsessed writer. When I worked at various jobs I always wound up being a proof reader. Not sure if I had a "proof reader" sign on my back, but that fell to me. I didn't mind, but it was at times disheartening that people who were supposedly more intelligent than me, with several higher degrees, yadda yadda yadda, couldn't write and had the worst grammar and syntax. I'm a bit of a grammar snob I guess.

I had an English teacher in junior high who was great. She asked all of us to memorize the pronouns, but to find a creative way to do it. Then, we had to present our mnemonic device to the class. Everyone liked mine. I set the pronouns to the Triumphal March from Aida. It was catchy and made them easy to remember.

I got the "professor" moniker from a couple of friends of mine.  I've had agreed to proof read job applications and college entrance exams.  I was not an English major, but I was much better at grammar and punctuation than my friends who really should know how to punctuate a simple sentence. ::)