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Title: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 03:05:24 AM
Well, you've read the notes, the notes were a notes to remember, and now it is time for you to post until the remembered cows come home.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 03:05:35 AM
And the word of the day is: EXHAUSTED!
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Post by: Michael on July 22, 2018, 04:10:20 AM
Good morning to all
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Post by: Michael on July 22, 2018, 04:11:06 AM
And that doesn't happen very often that I am the first poster in the AM
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Post by: Michael on July 22, 2018, 04:12:45 AM
Too bad the show wasn't recorded like the various S.T.A.G.E concerts were over the years.
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Post by: Michael on July 22, 2018, 04:13:54 AM
Everyone have a good day
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Post by: elmore3003 on July 22, 2018, 04:54:05 AM
Good morning, all!
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Post by: elmore3003 on July 22, 2018, 04:54:44 AM
The show sounds wonderful, and I am happy that it went well.
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Post by: elmore3003 on July 22, 2018, 04:56:46 AM
I did not sleep well.  Too many anxiety attacks.  The tsuris will continue through tomorrow, possibly longer.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 05:38:43 AM
Anti-anxiety vibes to Larry!

Is this out of fear about not having a good super in case of an emergency? Are you OK otherwise
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Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 05:48:22 AM
What amazing notes on what must have been an incredible night.  Congratulations!!!!
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:14:21 AM
Good morning from Hollywood!  I wish I could have slept longer but I guess I'm still on Eastern time.
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:14:53 AM
Bruce, I'm amazed that you were able to write those fantastic notes after the long day you had!
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:15:36 AM
Vibes for DR elmore!
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:17:51 AM
I can't say enough about last night's show!  Just fantastic!  I was of course disappointed that a certain superstar's sister didn't perform.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:20:19 AM
My experience with the ticketing:  I called after the show was sold out and was put on the "wait list."  I didn't have much hope but when I called back a week about 10 days  ago the woman was actually encouraging.  She said "just be sure to answer your phone."  She explained that if they called to let you know you had tickets you had to answer - they wouldn't be leaving a message!
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:21:14 AM
I also asked if there would be a cancellation line and she confirmed that there would be and it would probably start at 5:30 pm ( the show started at 7:30 pm)
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jrand73 on July 22, 2018, 06:22:35 AM
What wonderful notes.....I would like to comment, but first.....
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:23:07 AM
So I considered going to LA without a ticket and planning to be the first in the cancellation line (and I would have certainly waited till 7 pm --see BK's notes) so I guess I would have gotten in.  But the question was: where would I be sitting?  While the theatre is small and the view is probably fine from anywhere it's always best to be up front I think.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jrand73 on July 22, 2018, 06:24:19 AM
....I would like to tell everyone how I met Richard Sherman....I have never met Richard Sherman, but this seems like an appropriate time to hijack these here notes and talk about myself.....yes myself, such an interesting person - and though no one asked....I am sure you are all curious about....well....ME....and what ME has to say about what is happening today....and how I feel about it....and well....ME!!!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:25:21 AM
....I would like to tell everyone how I met Richard Sherman....I have never met Richard Sherman, but this seems like an appropriate time to hijack these here notes and talk about myself.....yes myself, such an interesting person - and though no one asked....I am sure you are all curious about....well....ME....and what ME has to say about what is happening today....and how I feel about it....and well....ME!!!



Funny, Jrand!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:27:55 AM
So last Sunday my friend Roxie called and said that her friend, whose daughter is interested in performing and goes to the high school where BK and Mr. Sherman appeared a couple of years ago, was not able to use her tickets since she would have to work Saturday night.  So Roxie, Paul and I had tickets!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:30:19 AM
The friend, Laura, told us that she got an email earlier this week informing her that she had to confirm her tickets, which she did.  Laura also mentioned that I would be picking up the tickets.
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:33:42 AM
I called the "Wallis" to get as much information as I could.  I asked if there would be seat assignments or if there would be open seating.  The man told me that there WOULD be seat assignments but they would be assigned when you picked up your tickets.  They would start giving out tickets at 5:30 pm.  I arrived at the theatre at about 4:10 and waited for my friends.   In the meantime, I tried to open the door and a man opened from the inside and asked if I were a musician.  I said, no, I'm wondering about lining up for tickets.  He said they would start at about 5 pm.
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:37:37 AM
My friends came along and were starving.  By this time I was second in a line of about 12 people.  We agreed that I would wait in line and they would head towards a restaurant and I would join them after I got the tickets.  So, finally the doors opened at about 5:15.  We walked in, only to find about 6 people already in line ( I don't know how they got in the building).  All this time I was thinking that something would go wrong and that they wouldn't let me have the tickets, but it was fine.  I looked at my tickets and we were in the front row on the side!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:41:10 AM
I joined my friends at the restaurant.  Roxie told me that Laura had texted her to say that she had gotten another email from The Wallis telling her that if she didn't pick up her tickets by 7 pm, they would give them away!    So that's my story, boring as it was---but I got a lot of posts from it!
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:45:16 AM
I agree about Melissa Manchester--she was just so wonderful singing "Feed the Birds."    Brent's choreography on "I Wanna Be Like You" had to be seen to be believed.   I didn't know that "She Has a Way" was a duet in Busker Alley.  He and his former costar were terrific, of course.
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:46:57 AM
I would never recognize Johnny Whitaker.  Of course it's been 50 years since Family Affair!  He performed his song really beautifully.
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Post by: Jrand73 on July 22, 2018, 07:02:38 AM
The internet said FIVE DECADES!!!!
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Post by: ChasSmith on July 22, 2018, 07:09:47 AM
Good morning, all.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: ChasSmith on July 22, 2018, 07:12:03 AM
What an incredible evening, and what great notes! Wish I could have been there.
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Post by: ChasSmith on July 22, 2018, 07:14:06 AM
Surprised me but good. In spite of the very subtle clues (which I was never really sure about), I never dreamed the troublemaker would turn out to have been the music director.

OMG. Seriously. WTF?
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: ChasSmith on July 22, 2018, 07:17:11 AM
For my meager news, the keyboard programming is DONE (D.U.N., to be sung to the tune of "N.Y.C.") and it's nearly time to pack things up and leave for the theater to get set up for rehearsal and probing some sitz.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: ChasSmith on July 22, 2018, 07:19:08 AM
So y'all shan't be seeing the likes of me till probably late tonight.

Vibes to all, and especially to DR Elmore in his weekend of anxiety. I am no stranger to anxiety, and I hope for a quick remedy to be coming down the pike.
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 07:25:26 AM
Good morning, all.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 07:25:34 AM
Vibes for Elmore.
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 07:25:45 AM
Show vibes for ChasSmith and company.
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 07:26:01 AM
Great news on the benefit, BK and company. Sounds like a thrilling evening.
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Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 07:26:21 AM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 07:26:24 AM
Too bad the show wasn't recorded like the various S.T.A.G.E concerts were over the years.

I second that.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 07:31:52 AM
DR Kevin I enjoyed reading your posts regarding your show experience, and am very pleased you had a ticket.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 07:38:36 AM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!

And another dose
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Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 07:46:03 AM
Show vibes for ChasSmith and company.

Ditto.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 07:46:22 AM
Vibes for Elmore.

Ditto!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 07:46:49 AM
....I would like to tell everyone how I met Richard Sherman....I have never met Richard Sherman, but this seems like an appropriate time to hijack these here notes and talk about myself.....yes myself, such an interesting person - and though no one asked....I am sure you are all curious about....well....ME....and what ME has to say about what is happening today....and how I feel about it....and well....ME!!!

;D
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 07:47:33 AM
Wonderful notes today, simply wonderful.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 08:01:36 AM
Thanks, DR Jane!  There is photographic evidence coming, I hope.  A photographer took a photo of BK and me and also Sami and me.  BK says she will be sending the photos to him.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 08:07:40 AM
The internet said FIVE DECADES!!!!

As Corie said in Barefoot in the Park:  "five decades does not fifty years make."

(or something like that. :). )
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 08:09:46 AM

Jane Fonda - Robert Redford "Six days does not a week make" dance
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_VevTucy8gM

at around 6:05
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 08:11:51 AM
I once wrote a lengthy article about MY perspective on why even people who say "Why do you make it all about YOU?" are indeed asking that very question from their own perspective!


Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 08:13:09 AM
It goes along with the idea that people who taunt and dare with "Go ahead, you know you want the last word". are really saying they want the last word themselves.  :)

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Post by: Ginny on July 22, 2018, 08:22:42 AM
Sunday morning greetings!  Enjoying some solitude and getting some puttering done today.
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Post by: Ginny on July 22, 2018, 08:23:34 AM
BK, your notes brought tears to my eyes.  Congratulations to all on a successful tribute and happiest of birthdays to Mr. Sherman!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 08:29:12 AM
I once wrote a lengthy article about MY perspective on why even people who say "Why do you make it all about YOU?" are indeed asking that very question from their own perspective!





This is the article, which I wrote in 2013.  I think I meant it with some humor?  (although the thing where people thank God for their getting the acting award (imagining God took time off from world hunger to make sure Carlotta Gump gets her Tony) has become a pet peeve


Can someone explain what feels like a 2010s trend, people saying "Why do
you make everything about YOU?"

It just seems knee-jerk, and it begs the question: Who else's reaction
to something should I be having other than my own? I go through
umpteen years of school to better MYSELF, don't I? I work to support
MYSELF and MY family, don't I? I do what I can to help MY friends and
family because I care about them, and I actively help charities or
causes or politicians I MYSELF support because I care about them.

When people stop being MY friends, they probably don’t want me to continue caring
and asking after them. Indeed, it might be considered rude and
intrusive. (As someone said when I casually asked how a former mutual
friend was doing, “Why do you want to know, are you writing a book?”)
When I leave a job, no one complains if I stop caring about how that
company is doing, even though its success was crucial to me before. The only
reason I cared before was because it affected ME and MY family and MY
finances and MY survival. No one questions that as correct, do they?

So is it a film, a book, a clergyman, what, that has given rise to this
catch-phrase? Where did this sudden "why do you make
everything about you" reaction come from, seemingly directed at
everyone these days? Really, it‘s not just directed at ME, let ME
assure you.

Take the awards season that we’re in now for theater, where people seem
to thank a higher power a bit, as if that detracts from the award quest
being about themselves. But when you thank the Lord for your statue, aren’t you
saying that YOU are somehow more worthy of attention than not only (of course)
the other four nominees, but also pesky matters like world hunger,
global warming. How is it not being about ME, ME, ME, to imagine a
higher power saying :”Let’s take five on fixing that [fill in natural
disaster] to make sure so-and-so gets his or her Lucille Lortel Award.”

My point is not that it’s wrong to look at the world from your own
perspective. It’s just that to call other people on it all the time,
as we seem to be doing right now, is denying that making ourselves
better through the best aspects of our self-interest, and meeting our
own potential,  may be the best way for everyone to add to the world, which is getting
smaller every year due to the net.. Maybe embrace that
you’re indeed here for you and yours, and the good feeling it gives YOU
to help others, the joy it brings YOU to make change.

Sometimes these days, I’d just hope for people who simply don’t abuse
other people in arriving at their own personal goals.
I’d love for those people to just be about themselves and not hurt others
maliciously or even recklessly.

Why is it necessarily a bad thing, then? Isn’t it what you do with what
you’re given? I’d imagine even Mother Theresa did what she did for the good
feeling it gave HER to do it.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Ginny on July 22, 2018, 08:29:53 AM
I did not sleep well.  Too many anxiety attacks.  The tsuris will continue through tomorrow, possibly longer.

{{{{{Hugs}}}}}
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 09:11:59 AM
Thanks, DR Jane!  There is photographic evidence coming, I hope.  A photographer took a photo of BK and me and also Sami and me.  BK says she will be sending the photos to him.

I look forward to the photos.
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Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 09:14:42 AM
Very true DR FJL.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 10:26:04 AM
Good morning / afternoon.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 10:26:33 AM
I overslept this morning.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 10:27:02 AM
I didn't wake up until after 9:00 a.m.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 10:27:33 AM
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 10:28:31 AM
Hugs and vibes to dear elmore!
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 10:29:08 AM
It  sounds like it was a near perfect evening.  Congratulations to BK!
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Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 10:51:24 AM
DR Kevin I enjoyed reading your posts regarding your show experience, and am very pleased you had a ticket.

Likewise!  How great that it all worked out so well.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 12:01:11 PM
I'm up, I'm up - almost eight hours of sleep.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 12:03:15 PM
To be clear, ChasSmith - not OUR musical director, but the orchestra conductor - the orchestra, about which I will say nothing, had sixteen minutes of the show (add two for the impromptu yakking at the top of act two) - the wasn't about them and yet you would have never known that.  It was a struggle straight down the line but in the end we had a great show and that's all I cared about. 
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 12:04:02 PM
KevinH, the people who'd gotten into the building to be first in line (and were told do so so) were orchestra members (not our band).  You see the problem, I'm sure.
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:31:15 PM
I'm finally up.
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:32:16 PM
Congrats to BK and the cast of the concert!  It all sounded like it was a fantastic evening!!
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:32:57 PM
Too bad the show wasn't recorded like the various S.T.A.G.E concerts were over the years.

I always wish that that could happen for BK's shows!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:33:10 PM
Anti-anxiety vibes to Larry!

~~~Super Ditto!!~~~
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:34:29 PM
....I would like to tell everyone how I met Richard Sherman....I have never met Richard Sherman, but this seems like an appropriate time to hijack these here notes and talk about myself.....yes myself, such an interesting person - and though no one asked....I am sure you are all curious about....well....ME....and what ME has to say about what is happening today....and how I feel about it....and well....ME!!!

:))
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:36:32 PM
Surprised me but good. In spite of the very subtle clues (which I was never really sure about), I never dreamed the troublemaker would turn out to have been the music director.

OMG. Seriously. WTF?

I know!  "WTF" is right!! :o
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:38:18 PM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!

~~~MEGA DITTO!!~~~
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:38:58 PM
Show vibes for ChasSmith and company.

~~~Ditto, Too!!~~~
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:51:24 PM
Well, I'm up, but I need to get moving.  I fed my cat and now I need to feed myself. 
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:52:19 PM
Then, I need to balance my checkbook and start tabulating what I've spent so far on props for Legally Blonde.  I probably should also make a list of the specific items that I have.  We're having a production meeting tomorrow and I don't know what information they're going to want from me, so I'd better be prepared.
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:52:39 PM
Then, I'm going to the movies with my friend Margo to see the new Mamma Mia sequel.  I'm sure that we'll dine somewhere afterward.
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:54:14 PM
And finally, we're going to see an outdoor production of The Winter's Tale.  We have to bring our own chairs.  Several friends are in it, so I want to see them as well.
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:54:44 PM
It's gonna be a long and entertaining day!
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:55:23 PM
Gratuitous Post #80!

;)
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Post by: George on July 22, 2018, 12:55:35 PM
Until later!
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 01:40:46 PM
Watching The Sins of Harold Diddlebock. Not great Preston Sturges, but some of the jokes are hilarious. And Margaret Hamilton is sterling.
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Post by: Jeanne on July 22, 2018, 01:46:19 PM
Hello, everyone.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jeanne on July 22, 2018, 01:47:02 PM
A BIG CONGRATS to BK & COMPANY!!

I have no doubt it was an outstanding show.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jeanne on July 22, 2018, 01:47:46 PM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!

~~~MEGA DITTO!!~~~

Mega tritto!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 01:50:02 PM
Went and picked up yesterday's packages but not yesterday's mashed potatoes.  Then went to a Jersey Mike's and had the same sandwich I had yesterday on our dinner break - turkey and provolone Mike's way.  Ate half and am saving the other half.
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Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 01:50:11 PM
Listening to music.
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Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 01:50:25 PM
I gotta tell you.
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Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 01:50:50 PM
Tell you I gotta.  So many wonderful comments coming this way.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jeanne on July 22, 2018, 01:51:09 PM
I once wrote a lengthy article about MY perspective on why even people who say "Why do you make it all about YOU?" are indeed asking that very question from their own perspective!





This is the article, which I wrote in 2013.  I think I meant it with some humor?  (although the thing where people thank God for their getting the acting award (imagining God took time off from world hunger to make sure Carlotta Gump gets her Tony) has become a pet peeve


Can someone explain what feels like a 2010s trend, people saying "Why do
you make everything about YOU?"

It just seems knee-jerk, and it begs the question: Who else's reaction
to something should I be having other than my own? I go through
umpteen years of school to better MYSELF, don't I? I work to support
MYSELF and MY family, don't I? I do what I can to help MY friends and
family because I care about them, and I actively help charities or
causes or politicians I MYSELF support because I care about them.

When people stop being MY friends, they probably don’t want me to continue caring
and asking after them. Indeed, it might be considered rude and
intrusive. (As someone said when I casually asked how a former mutual
friend was doing, “Why do you want to know, are you writing a book?”)
When I leave a job, no one complains if I stop caring about how that
company is doing, even though its success was crucial to me before. The only
reason I cared before was because it affected ME and MY family and MY
finances and MY survival. No one questions that as correct, do they?

So is it a film, a book, a clergyman, what, that has given rise to this
catch-phrase? Where did this sudden "why do you make
everything about you" reaction come from, seemingly directed at
everyone these days? Really, it‘s not just directed at ME, let ME
assure you.

Take the awards season that we’re in now for theater, where people seem
to thank a higher power a bit, as if that detracts from the award quest
being about themselves. But when you thank the Lord for your statue, aren’t you
saying that YOU are somehow more worthy of attention than not only (of course)
the other four nominees, but also pesky matters like world hunger,
global warming. How is it not being about ME, ME, ME, to imagine a
higher power saying :”Let’s take five on fixing that [fill in natural
disaster] to make sure so-and-so gets his or her Lucille Lortel Award.”

My point is not that it’s wrong to look at the world from your own
perspective. It’s just that to call other people on it all the time,
as we seem to be doing right now, is denying that making ourselves
better through the best aspects of our self-interest, and meeting our
own potential,  may be the best way for everyone to add to the world, which is getting
smaller every year due to the net.. Maybe embrace that
you’re indeed here for you and yours, and the good feeling it gives YOU
to help others, the joy it brings YOU to make change.

Sometimes these days, I’d just hope for people who simply don’t abuse
other people in arriving at their own personal goals.
I’d love for those people to just be about themselves and not hurt others
maliciously or even recklessly.

Why is it necessarily a bad thing, then? Isn’t it what you do with what
you’re given? I’d imagine even Mother Theresa did what she did for the good
feeling it gave HER to do it.

I agree completely. I always thought that phrase was stupid. I'm glad I don't hear people say it much anymore.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jeanne on July 22, 2018, 01:52:26 PM
Anti-anxiety vibes to Larry!

~~~Super Ditto!!~~~

Here, too.

Hope this really passes quickly, Larry.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 01:55:56 PM
I finally got my music moved over to Alexa. It's strange learning how to use the machine. And her limited vocabulary is rather irritating.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 01:58:57 PM
Now this is going to sound ignorant and stupid ...but why break the habits of a lifetime?
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 01:59:54 PM
I have never understood why it is necessary for a conductor to stand up in front of a group of rehearsed professional musicians and shake a stick at them.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 02:01:23 PM
Maybe somebody has to say "go" so they all start at the same time....but do  musicians suddenly forget when it's their turn to play or how loud or low to play when confronted by an audience?
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 02:01:59 PM
A director doesn't stand in the middle of a play pointing at people so they know when to say their lines
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 02:03:45 PM
End of my stupidity
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 02:03:51 PM
For the nonce
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Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 02:46:08 PM
I once wrote a lengthy article about MY perspective on why even people who say "Why do you make it all about YOU?" are indeed asking that very question from their own perspective!





This is the article, which I wrote in 2013.  I think I meant it with some humor?  (although the thing where people thank God for their getting the acting award (imagining God took time off from world hunger to make sure Carlotta Gump gets her Tony) has become a pet peeve




I agree completely. I always thought that phrase was stupid. I'm glad I don't hear people say it much anymore.

Too bad we don't measure progress on HHW by the number of words but do by the number of posts.  We could just keep responding to the same article and set a word-count record.  :)
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Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 02:48:36 PM
Maybe somebody has to say "go" so they all start at the same time....but do  musicians suddenly forget when it's their turn to play or how loud or low to play when confronted by an audience?


An old joke:

Once a music teacher took her class to their first grand opera. The lights began to dim, the conductor began waving his baton, and the soprano started singing. After a while, one of the students asked the teacher, "Why does the conductor keep waving his stick at the woman? What has she done? So the teacher said, "Oh, don't worry. It's just the way it is. He won't hit her! Don't worry. And so the student asked, "Then why is she screaming like that?"

source:  http://www.smchbooks.com/new-eng/book-e/joke-1/135/jk2.htm
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 03:52:37 PM
A director doesn't stand in the middle of a play pointing at people so they know when to say their lines

;D
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 03:53:34 PM
Maybe somebody has to say "go" so they all start at the same time....but do  musicians suddenly forget when it's their turn to play or how loud or low to play when confronted by an audience?


An old joke:

Once a music teacher took her class to their first grand opera. The lights began to dim, the conductor began waving his baton, and the soprano started singing. After a while, one of the students asked the teacher, "Why does the conductor keep waving his stick at the woman? What has she done? So the teacher said, "Oh, don't worry. It's just the way it is. He won't hit her! Don't worry. And so the student asked, "Then why is she screaming like that?"

source:  http://www.smchbooks.com/new-eng/book-e/joke-1/135/jk2.htm


Funny :)
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Post by: ChasSmith on July 22, 2018, 03:53:52 PM
To be clear, ChasSmith - not OUR musical director, but the orchestra conductor - the orchestra, about which I will say nothing, had sixteen minutes of the show (add two for the impromptu yakking at the top of act two) - the wasn't about them and yet you would have never known that.  It was a struggle straight down the line but in the end we had a great show and that's all I cared about.

Right, got it. As I read the story with my jaw hitting the floor, I completely forgot about Richard Allen being the MD.
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Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 03:54:02 PM
How many people were lucky enough to see the show?
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 04:10:39 PM
Good afternoon / good evening!
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 04:11:45 PM
Did DR Kevin have to fly back today?
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 04:17:21 PM
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~More positive vibes for dear friend, elmore~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 04:25:40 PM
At the end of my introductory remarks I really let the audience know what was what by saying that 90% of the show was singing - highlighting the SONGWRITER we were feting and then I called out our quintet and introduced Richard Allen as Richard Sherman's favorite musical director. 
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 04:25:50 PM
Maybe somebody has to say "go" so they all start at the same time....but do  musicians suddenly forget when it's their turn to play or how loud or low to play when confronted by an audience?


An old joke:

Once a music teacher took her class to their first grand opera. The lights began to dim, the conductor began waving his baton, and the soprano started singing. After a while, one of the students asked the teacher, "Why does the conductor keep waving his stick at the woman? What has she done? So the teacher said, "Oh, don't worry. It's just the way it is. He won't hit her! Don't worry. And so the student asked, "Then why is she screaming like that?"

source:  http://www.smchbooks.com/new-eng/book-e/joke-1/135/jk2.htm


Ha!
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Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 04:25:55 PM
Listening to music but must go sit on my couch.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 04:27:53 PM
My feet and lets are so sore right now - I was rarely off my feet going up and down between stage and audience, climbing the stairs to the green room and dressing rooms area - about four o'clock I think I was ready to fall over, and then I did, climbing the stairs to the stage - just missed my footing - nothing major and didn't really hurt myself, but my knees are pretty much sore as sore can be.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 04:42:23 PM
At the end of my introductory remarks I really let the audience know what was what by saying that 90% of the show was singing - highlighting the SONGWRITER we were feting and then I called out our quintet and introduced Richard Allen as Richard Sherman's favorite musical director. 

Had you worked with Richard Allen prior to this show?
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 05:01:57 PM
Of course - he did Levi and L.A. Now and Then and has probably done more Kritzerlands than anyone.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 05:02:52 PM
Listening to music.  Doug just called and reminded me he's having a cast party for his show today - but I'm just not sure I'm up for that at all.  We'll see how I feel in an hour or so.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 05:19:21 PM
Of course - he did Levi and L.A. Now and Then and has probably done more Kritzerlands than anyone.

Thanks. 
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:38:30 PM
Did DR Kevin have to fly back today?


No, TCB.   My friend Paul took the train in from Fullerton and we saw "On Your Feet--the Story of Emilio and Gloria Estefan" at the Pantages Theatre in Hollywood.  I have to admit that I really wasn't that interested in seeing it, but I wanted to spend time with Paul.  Besides, they had a special ticket price of $49!  I have to say that I enjoyed it very much!  The music is so good and the performances were too.
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:39:09 PM
Afterwards we went to California Pizza Kitchen, one of my favorite places.
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:43:47 PM
When I checked the airfares, it was much cheaper to and from Las Vegas.  I didn't want to take the chance doing that on the way here, but I'm flying to Vegas on the way home.  And Tuesday is cheaper than Monday.  Also, I wanted to stay at least three days on my trip so I'm actually going home Tuesday.  I have to say I'm not looking forward to the temperature--the forecast if for 106 degrees tomorrow.
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:44:38 PM
KevinH, the people who'd gotten into the building to be first in line (and were told do so so) were orchestra members (not our band).  You see the problem, I'm sure.



That's an interesting tidbit, BK!
Title: Re: A NIGHT TO REMEMBER
Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 06:49:40 PM
Page 5!
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 06:55:46 PM
Today is Vixdad's birthday
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 06:56:46 PM
I skipped church and took him to a local restaurant that runs a wonderful brunch
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 06:57:47 PM
He didn't want to make a big deal but he decided to invite My Mom come along
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 06:59:20 PM
They have a wonderful omelette station
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 07:00:42 PM
Just 4 more work days and then we are off to Florida
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 07:01:28 PM
Vixter called her Daddy as I was driving us to brunch
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 07:01:58 PM
I drove because they give free mimosas is as and I was letting Vixdad have mine
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Post by: vixmom on July 22, 2018, 07:03:46 PM
He also received calls from his neice and from his sister
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Post by: KevinH on July 22, 2018, 07:25:42 PM
Happy Birthday, Vixdad!
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 07:34:59 PM
Happy birthday, Vixdad!
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 08:21:41 PM
Shinobu Hashimoto, who wrote Seven Samurai and Rashomon among others, has died at age 100.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/obituaries/shinobu-hashimoto-screenwriter-of-kurosawa-classics-dies-at-100/2018/07/22/70e9013a-8c3a-11e8-a345-a1bf7847b375_story.html?hpid=hp_hp-cards_hp-card-obit%3Ahomepage%2Fcard&utm_term=.008944d5c87c
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Post by: FJL on July 22, 2018, 08:38:50 PM
Happy birthday, vixdad!
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Post by: Michael on July 22, 2018, 08:40:08 PM
Does anyone know of 5 (or less) L.A. tourist attractions that were open in 1989, but are no longer opened?

Thanks.
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Post by: John G. on July 22, 2018, 08:57:49 PM
Good night, all.
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Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 10:05:26 PM
Today is Vixdad's birthday

Happy Birthday to Vixdad 🍰
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Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 10:13:27 PM
DR John thanks for the link to the obit.  I had not read this.
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Post by: Jane on July 22, 2018, 10:23:42 PM
Just 4 more work days and then we are off to Florida

I am excited for you.
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Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 10:32:43 PM
I ended up going to Doug's party for about an hour - it was okay to get out of the house for a bit. 
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Post by: bk on July 22, 2018, 10:34:57 PM
Now listening to more music and a great album - Previn and J. J. Johnson (trombone), Red Mitchell, and Frank Capp playing Kurt Weill, mostly Threepenny, but a few Happy End and one Mahagonny.  I'm not always fond of Previn in jazz mode - I find him very facile (great players) and sometimes show offy, but not here - this music must get to him in some way because he actually has some gravitas here.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:19:56 PM
Good evening.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:20:30 PM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!


Thank you, Jane.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:21:23 PM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!

And another dose


Thank you, John G.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:22:14 PM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!

~~~MEGA DITTO!!~~~


Thank you, George.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:23:37 PM
MEGA SURGERY VIBES FOR THE NIECE OF DR TCB!

~~~MEGA DITTO!!~~~

Mega tritto!


Thank you, Jeanne.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:25:52 PM
I have very little to say tonight.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:26:53 PM
I have very little to say tonight.


That may make The NY Times.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:27:58 PM
We enjoyed a very nice brunch this afternoon.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:29:14 PM
I had the Biscuits and Gravy, which was very good.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:30:01 PM
The real brunch highlight was the crab and shrimp omelette.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:31:37 PM
Page 6
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:32:58 PM
The omelettes looked wonderful, and they were the size of most SUV’s.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:33:53 PM
I am not a huge fan of crab, even if it is Dungeness.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:34:39 PM
I don’t dislike it, it just isn’t a favorite.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:37:41 PM
And since there were seven of us at brunch, I was the odd man out.  I didn’t have someone to share my Passport card, which gives you buy one get one free.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:38:58 PM
And since I was alone on the bill, I passed on the $20.00 omelette.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:40:46 PM
I am surprised that George is still at an outdoor play at this time of night.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:45:55 PM
Happy Belated Birthday Wishes to DH vixdad!
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:46:57 PM
And here’s hoping that vixmom’s last week before vacation is snag-free.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:49:01 PM
We are heading into a, at least, seven day heatwave.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:51:07 PM
Temperatures in the high eighties all week, bordering on 90’s by the end of the week.
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Post by: TCB on July 22, 2018, 11:53:08 PM
But it will be much warmer where Jane and Keith live.
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Post by: George on July 23, 2018, 12:01:12 AM
Well, the sequel to Mamma Mia was fun and touching and a little over the top, but worth seeing.  I love ABBA, so I enjoyed all the songs.  Of course, it's a jukebox musical, but the songs pretty much made sense in the (quite simple) story.