TOD: Well, I'm a relative newbie here, too, and I've only belonged to a few internet groups, but I think it's safe to say that this is indeed the best group on the internet. I don't know why the internet seems to bring out the worst in some people---maybe they enjoy venting but retaining a measure of anominity.
This group is entirely different, and I think that is due in good part to the global moderator, who doesn't put up with incivility. As a result, he has a group of some of the nicest people on the planet.
I've benefitted personally because I've learned so much about musical theatre that I never dreamed of---even just the fact that all these wonderful trunk songs exist is a marvel. And I love how everyone is so supportive of everyone else through the good times and the bad. The outpourings of compassion during times of loss has been very inspiring and often healing to me.
I also can't express how wonderful it has been to have a group of people who have been so generous with their support of my films. It is very tough to make a documentary; SACCO AND VANZETTI took 5 years, and it's hard to keep your spirits up along the way, especially when you feel like no one may ever see it, or you will never finish it.
It was so gratifying then to finally unleash it in NY to such a wonderful reception from the HHW folks. I have friends in NY whom I've known for years (same in LA) who didn't even bother to go. But the Hainsies were there, not only to attend the film, but to take time out for a splendid brunch courtesy of FJL and Skip (and Singdaw was there in spirit!). And dinner with Adrianna and bk in LA was truly wonderful and I was honored that they attended the opening night.
Also, people here bought THE INTERNATIONALE...something I never would have dreamed. I know none of my friends outside this group or even family would have bought a copy. There are so many people in this group who particpate and create in the arts, at all different levels, and their efforts are always applauded and supported here, and it's so necessary in order to go on doing those things which are often under-appeciated or go unseen.
I loved reading the progress of The Brain, from the mind of our fearless leader to its realization on the stage, and was happy to be a part of the process.
I love being surrounded by so many animal lovers and nature lovers who document the wonderful things they see in their part of the world. I like the running gags; even hearing about Ben's oatmeal bowl makes me smile every morning.
One of my most fun days was when I was invited at the last minute to an Oscar party and needed to create an Oscar-themed dish. The suggestions were flying---hundreds of them---and I don't remember the last time I laughed so much. I started compiling a list and only got to page 29 of the posts...and there were so many more.
And the most memorable times to me, the most moving ones, were following the whole story of Sherlock, and especially Danise and her mother. As sad as it was, I found the outpouring of support very moving and it made me feel good about the human race. And our brilliant list member who organized a way for us to pay tribute to Danise's mom---that was unforgettable, and I think about it now when I look at the stars and wonder if I'm looking at hers.
And don't even get me started on how great it is to have people share things with you that they enjoy---I've gotten so many treat in the mail that have enriched my life immensely.
I LOVE YOU GUYS!! (And Aventurera!)
