One of my grandmother's sisters passed recently, a woman of great wealth. Her six children, who never cared for her in her sickness (Alzheimer’s), fought over every penny. My grandmother and our "side" of the family saw not a cent. 'Interestingly' enough we found that most of her jewelry and physical possessions were distributed amongst the sneaky before her actual death, and therefore were not available to be distributed -as her will specified- to the likes of us Patti's.