So, why are they mad at your mom? I must have missed something. I saw that a niece (or girlfriend of a nephew) got sick in Sam's car. I must have missed whatever offense your mother committed.
My mother and I decided not to tell Sam when she arrived at the house. We checked the car after I had cleaned it out and it didn't smell, so we just decided to say nothing. That's my crime. They figured it out, I'm sure my nephew told them and Sam had a fit because we didn't tell her. When Sam was ranting about it, mom said "Well you shouldn't have fed her all the wine and cigarettes" My mom makes comments like that, but apparently her comment really upset Sam. She's not mad at the girl who got sick, just mom and I. I talked to my brother yesterday and he said that's it, I wasn't honest (a sin of omission apparently) and my mom made a comment.
I'm outraged at their behavior. I get that they think I should have told her right away. Fine, but the rest of it is just so blown out of proportion. I'm done dealing with this drama over nothing. Mom said they think we are evil witches...I said she can't be, she doesn't like to fly.
I don't really care if they want to disrespect me, I can just blow them off, but the way they continue to disrespect my mother is something I have decided not to tolerate any more.