Since were were discussing "visitations" and other strange stuff, I decided to pull this section out of my 2010 memoir for your perusal:
"I knew a fellow named Tim Hansel. We went all the way through
school together, from elementary through high school. He was a nice
guy, a good athlete, but we were never close buddies, just friendly
acquaintances. The last time I saw Tim was at our 35th high school
reunion.
"I hadn’t thought about Tim for years, then a few months ago, his
name just popped into my head and I suddenly had a strong urge to
call him and say, “Hello.” I searched the Internet, but could not
come up with a direct contact, so I sent a couple of e-mails to people
who, ostensibly, knew him, requesting that they ask Tim to contact
me. That’s it. I never heard anything back from anybody, so I went
on to other things.
"About a month later, I heard from a mutual acquaintance on
Facebook that Tim had died…on the very day that I had tried to contact
him.
"Go figure."