Larry, I empathize. And agree with Ron that YOU must come first. But it is sooo difficult! My friend Jan, who has always had great health and abundant energy, is now having health issues. I tried to explain to her recently how I have to break things down into doable units, then rest. She, of course, didn't want to hear it. I can't blame her. It's so much nicer to forget your health and just do what you want!
Between the new mattress and the PT I hope you're soon feeling much better, Larry.