DR Elmore, sorry about your friend. I have a friend who was my best friend since 1979 or so. She is a very active democrat and hasn't talked to me since the last presidential election. I was there for her when her dad died, when here husband died...I was even a part of his service. She came to my office opening, I've spent Christmases with her for years, we've traveled together etc. But I switch political parties and our friendship is apparently over. It was very hard for me last year. This year it was easier, partially because they had our family get together the day before I went up there and I didn't see her and partially because she didn't send any greeting cards on my birthday or other times - which she has always done. So I knew she wasn't making any attempt to be my friend anymore
Hugs to you my friend. It's a hard thing to go through