Ok, here's a minor pet peeve I have. I'm invited to a New Years Eve party. That's cool. I offered to cook something as everyone always brings a dish. The hostess asked me to bring my flute instead. I have absolutely no interest in taking my flute to their party. I don't want to be the entertainment, I want to go to the party. Yes, I could improvise something, but I don't want to and I don't want to feel obligated to spend the whole evening there. It's in a very nice place, but it's a long way from my house and I don't really like to go out on New Years Eve. I'll have to talk to Cindy, but sheesh