Bruce, I'm so sorry about your Actor. LA is crawling with 40-ish character men... a plethora could learn the piece within a few days, and feel privileged to step into such a richly drawn part. Go for it.
Just by the way, I had the wonderful experience of being directed by BK when I was a nineteen year old wannabe - he is very much a collaborative artist, an actor's director. However, he does DIRECT - with an eye to the WHOLE show. I can see how an actor who is blinded by his own greatness would be hampered and constrained by having to mesh with a playwright's story and other actors' performances during a run.