...After the fireworks last night, I had the opportunity to chat with Laurel Massé for a bit...
It turns out we had similar experiences growing up. We both had sort of nomadic childhoods. I can't exactly remember what line of work her father was in, but her family moved all over the place, both in the States and in Europe. My father was in the Coast Guard, and each time he was re-stationed, we all had to pick up and move our lives time and again.
Laurel brought up something that I'm just now realizing and dealing with: Since we moved around so much as children and adolescents, neither of us have any true childhood friends. We were just never in one place long enough to establish those types of bonds and friendships. Consequently, we also "learned" how
not to get attached to people since we knew we would never be "there" in the long run.
However, lately, it's been a process of unlearning that behavior, and allowing ourselves to open up to people on a deeper level. To form friendships, relationships.
It's amazing how getting rid of that sense of the temporary has started to change both of our lives. And I'm sure many other have dealt with the same sort of thing too.
*She also, like myself, is liking getting "older". I told her that turning 30 was great for me - it truly was. And she told me, "Just wait till you turn 40!"
