Well, the DH is going to be in San Francisco for a convention at the end of June and beginning of July. I'm doing research to find out what the requirements are, but I may just hop a quick flight out to CA and back so that we can legally be married before the courts shut it down. NY State has already ruled that it will recognize the marriage. The November CA ballot referendum may render it null and void, but I still think it's worth it to try.