BK pointed out last night:
BK said: "I have been battered and bruised by certain types all over the Internet - a lot of that boils down to the cretin who pursues me all over the Internet, and anyone who thinks THAT'S paranoia knows nothing of what's been happening since 2007. It would drive anyone to paranoia or distraction. But you know what - if I'm so paranoid and destructive maybe we should just call this board quits. Because really I think my history here with most dear readers has not only been positive, but supportive and friendly, as well. "
I actually in both cases have would up appreciating when I've just been away a day or two (even if for no other reason than I've been evry busy and often don't want to post until I ketch-up) and you write an email of some sort to make sure everything's OK. I'm hoping my one day of raised voices at you when I was in the middle of a family crisis is an indicator only that I have a boiling point in general, not any lack of admiration for you or appreciation for the site.
That said, I wonder if by saying from time to time you're going to close down the site - you'd be delighting whoever is plaguing you