Well, it (the family situation) was unpleasant. I didn't know how it was going to resolve itself or if it was going to resolve itself, so I was going to go out to eat with Paul. He wanted to go to the opening of the sound garden (quite cool) at a local non profit music school...it's a cool outdoor space...but when it was time to go to dinner he wanted to go with a big group including someone I don't particularly like or get along with, so I claimed a headache and came home. It was a bad enough day without having to be civil to someone I wasn't in the mood to be civil to