I love all of Oscar Wilde. The most affecting Wildean moment was seeing Peter Hall's production of AN IDEAL HUSBAND at the Haymarket back in the mid-nineties. It was not only hilariously funny but also very moving and had me weeping in one part. An added bonus was Martin Shaw (who played Henry Baskerville in my Hound of the Baskervilles) doing Lord Goring as a thinly veiled portrait of Wilde himself.
I too am a fan of the Michael Redgrave film of Importance from '52. And enjoyted the recent one as well, but I thought a lot of the taking of one long scene on stage and cutting it up over several locations in the film sometimes disrupted the natural rhythms and builds it should have. They also cut my favourite lines: "You've eaten all my bread and butter." "And very good bread and butter it was too."
I saw an interestng and foiled production out here in LA several years back directed by that old iconoclast Charles Marowitz whose concept was that both Algy and Jack are gay and Cecily and Gwendolyn are merely beards. But I heard from a friend in the show playing Chausible that the lead actors revolted against the concept and went to management and got their way. So the production ended up neither fish nor fowl. Algy and Jack are wearing green carnations, but there is really very little else to suggest they're gay. While I don't think I agree with concept, I wish Marowitz, who is always interesting, had been allowed to fully commit to the concept...because I think it could have been one valid interpretation.
The Hurd Hatfield film of Dorian Gray is interesting.
I have wonderful two-DVD set that has old BBC TV plays of Importance (Alec McCowan & Joan Plowright); An Ideal Husband (Jeremy Brett, Keith Michell, Margaret Leighton, Susan Hampshire); Lady Windermere's Fan (Ken Cranham, Sara Kestleman, Robert Lang); and Dorian Gray (John Gielgud, Peter Firth, Jeremy Brett). It also features a 60 minute doc on Wilde.
I've seen Ideal husband, Lady Windermere's Fan, and the Dorian Gray and all are excellent!
Just last week, I heard a lovely recitation of The Ballad of Reading Gaol by actor Simon West read on BBC4 radio.
I also like the Stephen Fry film about Wilde. And there was an interesting play about the Wilde trial that made the rounds of regional theatres a few years back...Gross something or other. Can't remember the full title.
My favourite Wilde quote is "We're all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars."