I am going to repost something that our dear Jose posted last night. I want everyone here to read it very very carefully. Here it is:
"And after reading through all the posts yesterday that had been posted since I had posted in the morning...
This is a very wonderful place on the internet. One big happy family. Yes, dysfunctional at times, but what family is truly "functional" anyway? It's nice to have a place where we all can talk about our daily lives, from the big issues down to the trivialities. We can laugh. We can cry. We can smile. We can offer words of comfort, and hearty pats on the back. We can talk about "pudding" and "underpants" in the same sentence. -It may not be pretty, but where else on the net could those two words be put in the same sentence, as BK would say - and I think he did.
Best of all, we can move on.
And we did."
But apparently not everyone can. I found the post that re-instigated this mess totally unacceptable and unnecessary. As Jose so eloquently said, we'd moved on. Anything else should have been done privately. I am truly sorry that dear reader Panni could not let this go, and that she felt it necessary to make this post today. She has informed me she's leaving the site. I find that totally unnecessary too, especially since, as Jose points out, we've had this sort of thing before, and much worse, and we get over it and move on. However, if that's her decision because she simply cannot let things go, then that is her decision. I'm sure we'll all miss her, and maybe she'll come back after a time. But there was simply no reason that I can see to have dredged this up again when we all were pretty much back to normal. Well, people come, people go, like Grand Hotel. I love our site, I love our hainsies/kimlets, I have tried my damndest to keep things bright through this tempest in a teapot, and I would only hope that NO ONE take sides in this and that no one leaves the site because they took sides. This is not a black-and-white situation. There are no "victims" and there are no "evil bad people". I adore you all - now LET'S GET BACK TO WHAT WE'RE ABOUT.
Signed,
BK Falafel.