I phoned my cousin this morning. She and I are in different political parties, so I've always avoided discussing politics with her. That was fine until the last election. I avoided calling her for a while, knowing that she has some very strong views which I don't agree with. I thought, though, by now we were OK. I was telling her about the problems here at the apartment when I happened to use the word "Hispanic." OMG! My cousin went into a MEGA rant. I stopped her and simply said that she and I cannot discuss politics. She agreed. Then she said, "But you agree with <xyz>, don't you?" (No.) "That's politics." "That's not politics!" "Yes, it's politics." We were finally able to get out of this loop and discuss something else. It was really kind of funny. Talk about "hot button" issues!