I neglected to say earlier that I was horrified to read of DR Rodzinski's experience.
That's a nightmarish cloud potentially threatening every one of us, and I know I can't even imagine the hell it must be, navigating those waters...and most likely having to pay for the privilege of proving you are you. What a horrible situation, as BK points out, with all of the parties involved ASSUMING the victim is lying. It's disgusting.
Thank you DR ChasSmith, and others who have expressed support. It's sort of my worst nightmare and keeping me awake at night. I keep reminding myself, I don't owe this, I did nothing wrong, but it's still frustrating. I just need my police report so I can start sending more detailed dispute letters out and so forth...