Elmore, vixmom, Iris and other dear readers who asked, we left NY for the great state of Delaware not long after our son was born. Wife’s job transferred her there. We missed NY and she got a job back there and we returned to much delight. Then Covid hit and it became very difficult now with two kids and by chance another job sent us back to Delaware, making us the rare people who moved to Delaware twice. But Mrs Rodzinski is from British Columbia, and her parents are not doing well. Her mom had had a stroke flying back from visiting us, saved only by a quick-thinking flight attendant. So…we were worrying a lot, and knew we had to get closer, which we did last summer.