I visited Debra before going to the party. Her contractor did a fabulous job on her back porch.
We sat and talked about 40 minutes before we both left for Chad's house and the party. Chad is about 2 miles down a dirt road from Debra's.
All of the party was outside. Lots of kiddie inflatables were on hand...slides, a bounce house, a pool, etc. The kids were many.
Happily, Chad had a lot of his personal friends there with their kids, plus his sister Becky and her children Audrey and Levi and hubby Evan.
I met his wife's grandparents, and they were quite wonderful and personable. I spoke to Courtney and handed her the birthday card I had ordered. She thanked me for coming and that was it. I left after a half hour. The expended energy of those kids wore me out.