I've been paying all my bills online for several years. Actually, probably longer than "several". But I do NOT allow any of them to rope me into auto-pay.
Actually, I take that back. My home and auto insurance premiums get taken out that way, which supposedly also gives a bit of a discount. Likewise, a few subscriptions, but those come out of my AmEx card because I figure if I ever have a problem with them, AmEx can have the pleasure of dealing with it. But regular bills? I log onto each site every month and initiate the payment.