I asked my 4 sisters to say something at my wedding reception. They could have read a poem, anything. Found out later they got in such a fight about what to do, none of them were speaking leading up to my wedding.
LOL! Here's my brother's tribute to me, presumably written with the help of his lawyer who was trying to disqualify me as executor.
"Fred Landau is a Harvard Educated attorney, who has never practiced law. His training has equipped him with skills that enable him to twist any situation to fit his chosen narrative, reconfiguring reality to suit his purpose."

Oh, my!
"Oh, my!" says it! To make it loonier, that was written in July 2020 (when I'd just turned 60). Just 2+ years earlier, in January and February 2018, my brother was still faxing me written lots of detailed family asset information for my review and my input on everything going on with all the assets - so he was clear in writing that I was totally trustworthy in February 2018.
My law school training was in 1980-1983.