Also had a wonderful phone conversation with DR Elmore about all of our cats.
For the past five years I'd been committed to this house being the sanctuary for Annabelle, Thatch, and Stella, if and when there should ever be reason for him to find a new home for them. We (my housemates and me) have gradually realized over the past several months or more that we just can longer commit to that because we're just too "done", and I felt worse than anything about breaking that five-year-old promise. Thankfully, DR Elmore completely understands that (not to put words in your mouth, sir!), and there will be another "right" person who can commit to taking all three - because they are never to be separated, even I from afar would never sanction that - and another path will be found.
I tell you, it's been a journey, these past few days, but we'll move on. It was a great conversation, and I needed it. Thanks again, DR Elmore.