In addressing today's topic, I really do not like confrontations. As a fairly high strung person, I don't handle them well so I avoid them if possible. However, like so many others who have posted about this today, when pushed to the breaking point, I will deal face-to-face with the person pushing my buttons, and there will be sparks. Afterwards, I'm usually a quivery bowl of jelly, usually very upset and unable to concentrate on anything else. These upsets seem to happen a lot less now that I am retired, but even now, I try to avoid unpleasantness if at all possible. I'm not much of a scene maker unless provoked, and then, well, even I wouldn't want to be around me.