Carved in granite first! It sounds like a nice gravestone.
Ours is a stupid pop-out plaque at an outrageous price. It hasn't helped the mail from California is so darn slow. When I first called abut the incorrect sample, the guy handling this at the cemetery took a photo of Dad's so we could compare them. Unfortunately he couldn't figure out how to email said photo, delaying this process even longer. I sent a copy of the photo with my changes.
We all find it too sad to go to the cemetery without the plaque there, sort of silly I suppose.