Guys, um, I need your help. You are the people I trust the most, so I feel it best to ask you all for some advice.
In my group mof friends, there are two girls that are bi. One recently came out, and the other one figured out last year. Now, here's the issue. The girl who de-closeted last year has possibly fallen for the second girl. So hard she has trouble looking at her at times when the second is dressed really pretty at school. So shes not sure if she should ask the other out or not. Normally she says she'd jump at the chance to be with "the girl of her dreams practically", however some issues have arisen,
1) Her father doesn't know she's bi-sexual. This might be the second biggest issue out of all of them...
2) The major one: They're BEST. FRIENDS. She's frightened to death of frightening away the only person that isn't her mom (who she has a really close relationship with) who she can tell anything to, and who will be there for her whenever she needs her. She asked two other friends before coming to me, and both being the teens they are said, "OMG how cute, go for it!!!"...or somthing along those lines...and she came to me, and I told her that while I had no idea what to do, I knew some people who mightr. I told her I wouldn't use names, so she was cool with it. So now I ask you, what should she do? Should she go for it, should she just wait and hope it passes soon, or is there another option? Also, take note that for some reason, her best friend, the one she has a crush on, has a secret she won't share with her, but everyone else in her group seems to know. So, my dear friends, please help my other dear friend with her romance issue please.
Love to you all, Vixter.
DR vixter - I've thought about this a bit more since I first read this earlier today, and I just re-read your post again...
Teenage hormones and emotions are never easy to deal with. After further thought, the bigger issue here is whether either of your friends are already sexually active. -Which is definitely information that should just be kept between you, your friends, and, ideally, their parents.
You and your friends are at that stage where "the world will end if...". However, as we all know, the world will not end, and life will go on. So... If you still really feel a need to help your friends out, then find a "local" adult. I'm guessing you've already talked about this situation with your parents. If not...
And as DR singdaw already intimated, if you sense that your friend is at an extreme end of the emotional spectrum, then maybe you should ask your Mom to talk to her Mom. But again...
