My 50th birthday plans for Sunday have been changing.
Back in December, we'd actually planned a day trip to Orlando - even had reservations at California Grill, which I recently cancelled, so I noticed that had been made last December. Then it hit aftre all the planning of the day - the reality of flying for 3-plus hours each way, possible delays, only 5 hours actually on theme park premises.
Changed plans to Atlantic City, because I'd heard the ACES Atlantic City train service was so pleasant and fun, especially if we did a birthday splurge for the better class of train service. So that was a go. Thing is, we'd just naturally assumed there would be service on that ACES line on Sunday night (figuring lots of people would be coming back on Sunday nights, right?) turns out we can easily get the great service going there Sunday morning getting there, but Sunday night, we'd have to take regular old Amtrak and the trip involved changes and was an hour longer. And just a day or two ago, the physical reality of that either 4-hour train trip back to NYC, or alternatively a packed-bus trip on my actual 50th birthday date, set in - so as of now, we probably won't do that.
The truth is, I'd had so much fun first planning out first the Orlando trip, and then the Atlantic City trip, that I feel like the anticipation towards the 50th birthday Sunday has given me real joy for several months now - and the really strange thing is: it's almost like I don't need the reality of the traveling day; only as it drew near did the actual travel time start to feel "real" instead of "an adventure."
The good feeling of all the planning remains a nice memory, though. As of now, we'll probably just end up spending the day at my brother's in New Jersey (which we never get to do together because of the boys), since we'd already made arrangements for friends to watch Toby and Dylan for the day. And it feels like a pleasant way to spend the day itself - i feel like I've been sort-of-celebrating my 50th birthday through my research online for months now.
