I just got the most touching email from a friend of 33 years or so who's just ended his marriage of 25 years because he's decided that he's gay. His wife and children are handling things well. The last time I saw him in Manhattan, about a year and a half ago, when he was in for some arts council program he's working with and we had dinner, he made a comment that had me thinking, that sounded awfully gay. Things and times change.
I wish him well and much happiness.