DR Jane did you see the question I asked last night re your facebook comment. Sorry I cannot quote it cause I am on my kindle.
Sorry I missed it:
What is a follow option and how do you know if it is off? And how did she discover it?
I guess she looked at it, which is good because someone following her is a creepy guy on the West Los Angeles group that a number of women I know have had to block.
Click on your friends. When the page opens, at the top left you will see your name & to the right of that the friends box with the down arrow next to it. Click on the arrow. The 6th option down is "following". Click on that & you can see who has the option to follow people. I think if you have the "follow" option turned on, which I don't, you can also see who is following you as in watching what you always have to say. The scary thing was that my friend had a few names listed that she wasn't friends with, including this creep whom she has now blocked.