Jane wrote yesterday: "Today my sister would have been 69. It is sad I went from her adoring little sister to being relieved when she was gone. I like to remember her like this, before the abuse towards me was the norm and she was more often than not a wonderful big sister."
Jane, it's interesting about sibling issues - my brother has been different in the last month to seven weeks or so, pretty much rewriting the past, and people are telling me they always saw that side of him all the years.