DR Cillaliz - glad that your family together time was meaningful for all, despite the sad circumstances.
It was sad at the funeral and at the visitation, but he was just shy of his 90th birthday and had an aggressive cancer. He was doing well up until the last couple weeks and it would have been a lot more suffering if he had lingered. So it was a sad occasion, but he had a good run.
Actually I'm not sure there was a lot of time to be that sad, there was also an asthma attack, a car accident, two drunk women who fell on water in the bathroom resulting in a trip to the ER at 3:30 AM and 9 stitches in a forehead, a grandson who's flight was cancelled from Atlanta to Sioux Falls and he was re-routed to Minneapolis, so there was a late night 6 1/2-7 hour round trip drive to get him so he would be there in time for the funeral..... Let's just say it was quite an eventful gathering. It was just one thing after another and we ended up laughing a lot.
And no I was not in this car accident and I wasn't one of the drunk women. I was at my parents' house sound asleep