Mike, the volunteer driver that helps me via the American Cancer Society, has a friend whose story parallels Jenner's. I only know what I've been told, so I only really have the outlines of the story. His friend a successful and well-respected plastic surgeon, 65 years old, volunteering much of his time to treat medical cases others cannot treat due to age, complications, etc. After his last child left for college, he told his wife that he wasn't happy, even though by all "standards" he should be. He told her that he had begun treatments and would become physically a woman. His wife immediately filed for divorce. Mike has been this surgeon's friend for several decades and was surprised of his decision. Mike thought he "knew" his friend, but will still be his friend through it all. Mike thought he "knew" the surgeon's wife and was surprised that she wouldn't support her husband emotionally, but he's trying to see both sides. It's not easy to understand from the outside, so it must be a challenge within.