I think it's tougher for my sister because she hasn't been around them much over the years. This hasn't happened over night. They are doing quite well physically and are in great spirits. So, as long as they aren't having safety issues, they can keep on the way it is. I'm glad it all was discussed last month, and they told me when they feel they need help in home they will consider it, but not yet. Since they are doing ok, that makes sense to me. They have cleaning ladies and someone who takes care of the yard. They eat out several times a week and mom still does ok cooking. So, for now, all is ok.