As Merman stories go DR JANE.....probably....
LOL. I found it rather unendearing.
And she'd probably ask you the same question she asked Loretta Young!
I once had lunch with retired publicist Robert Ullman and
Playbill editor Louis Botto and they had me rolling on the floor with Ethel Merman stories. Once, onstage in
Call Me Madam, the stage crew was so noisy that she stopped a scene, said to the audience, Excuse me, turned upstage and yelled, Shut the F**k up!!!
Then, as if nothing happened, she resumed the scene. I love her!