Today is my only full day off this holiday weekend, and it’s booked solid with two “barbecues” (total misuse of the word) I’ve promised to attend: the annual one at a theeder friend’s house at noon, and a later drop-in at a neighbor’s house. I intend to be very careful not to over eat, and especially not to overindulge in adult beverages. It really should come to no more than a decent burger and a bit of sides at each place, several hours apart, but I know all too well how these things can get out of control.