DR FJL, last night you posted you underestimate at times how much your work is valued and the attention people pay to what you feel.
I think you are probably correct, but I would say it has much less to do with financial issues and more to do with low esteem and poor self-image I've had since I was around 3-4 years of age. My parents when I was born were ill-equipped to be parents, and when my brother Tom was born two years after me, I was left to fend for myself while my mother praised her beautiful new baby, and treated him like a little doll to dress up and coddle, and while my dad - who might have realized that, like Mr Bennett, he had made the wrong match - became an aloof workaholic.