Good Morning. I have never seen a professional staging of Gypsy just a community theatre version and a high school version. The high school version was great. However, I haven't really grasped on to the fact that everyone loves this show. I guess it has to do with the performances? I don't know. The score is great, the book is definitely "of it's time", but I just don't "get it".
As for recordings -
Ethel
Angela
Tyne
You can keep the others. After reading Patti's memoire, I've decided I am not a Patti fan at all. I've seen her in Sweeney Todd where she played the tuba - and I actually loved that production as a whole because of the talent of the performers - and I've seen her in a cabaret act, which was fine. Bernadette has grown on me over the years, and she was amazing in Hello, Dolly and Bette was not when I saw her. I always thought that Bernadette was wrong for the role (Mama, not Dolly) from the beginning.
I haven't seen either movie all the way through. I guess I should see the first one, though. Bette is hit and miss with me.