And...
Anyone who has met der Brucer and myself will agree, neither of us is at all effeminate. All the same, we're easily spotted as a couple anyplace we go. We had another example of that on Saturday, while we were out shopping.
Der B needed a new desk chair, since the one he brought with us from Long Beach had collapsed beyond usability, and none of the other chairs in the house seated him the way he wanted. So, while exploring a different WalMart, this one a Super WalMart in Camden, near Dover, he checked what they had in the way of office/desk chairs.
They had exactly what he wanted, but there was a catch. The stock of chairs, in boxes, was way up high, much higher than I could reach, and we weren't going to try having one of us climb on the other's shoulders. Fortunately, one of the store staff spotted that we needed help, and went to get a ladder.
Box and chair delivered to ground level, he turned to us and asked "So, which one of you is the Professor?"
"He is," I replied. "I'm the cook."
The staffmember grinned and said "I kind of figured that with you two."
He went one way, we were going in another, when I commented to der B, "I just had a Gilligan's Island moment there. What would he have said if I'd told him you're the Professor and I'm Mary Ann?"
Der B was walking in front of me, but I could tell he was rolling his eyes.