We got the estimate from the caterer this morning for Gabe's Bar Mitzvah. Almost 3K. Oy.
In the good news department, the wonderful Budget Committee at the church where I work decided last night not to cut staff hours/salary by 20%, which had been on the table due to the economy. I'm incredibly grateful. As is the caterer.
OK I will try to stop worrying about the nearly $350.00 the Vixter's school ring is going to cost ( and she chose one of the least expensive rings, in fact she chose the cheapest metal which we decided to upgrade to silver - gold, even the 10K gold, was out of reach - they also had options like diamonds for side stones (she chose cubic zirconia and we did not disuade her).
I could not believe how expensive these rings are - the salesman for the ring company must make a nice living!