Ben has never been on Facebook. But you know what - all of us here have busy schedules, workloads and stress, travel time, job location issues - if you want to post, you post, it's pretty simple, and his usual "I'm eating oatmeal" posts take exactly how long to make? Three seconds? It's comforting to see those posts but he's been gone for months now and when you do that it's doubtful there will be a return.