TPunk - sorry about the headache - I suffered from frequent migraines for years. But as I got older the frequency, if not the intensity, dwindled. If I am aware of the aura, BEFORE it slams into my skull, I can sometimes short-circuit a headache with Excedrin Migraine. 2 tabs, and lie down in the dark, BEFORE the headache comes.
Elmore, my heart goes out to you and your family. I know, son. I know.