Sometimes there are things that I miss out on, having moved from SoCal.
A major example is that a couple of friends of ours in that area, Daniel and James (and yes, I do mean couple), have expanded their family, giving six-year-old Caleb a four-year-old brother named Alfred. These guys are great dads, and I'm so glad to know that their family is now even more complete.
So, the question remains: if this is a family, why can't the parents marry?