Danise, I have been thinking a lot about what you posted last night. You really have not recovered enough to be the sole caregiver for your mom, right now. Does she have any insurance? Even if not, Medicaid will provide an in-home part-time caregiver, to help you with her care - they do some light housekeeping, cooking, laundry - and would help you with bathing her. Please consider this. It's a bit of hoop-jumping - maybe a friend who has a bit more energy than you have can help you with the paper work, initial phone calls, etc. It's worth a shot, kiddo...