JMK doesn't live here anymore - he and/or his wife got angry with me - it was silly and e-mail tone was certainly mis-read by them - I was asked for an apology, which I gave instantly even though I explained the tone was mis-read. Apparently it wasn't good enough - such is life. Perhaps someday he'll come back. I cannot count the number of e-mails that I've both received and sent where tone has been completely mis-read - by me and by the reader. You'd think, however, that we'd learn and just figure that out, but apparently it's a difficult lesson. I ALWAYS ask now - did you mean so and so or did you mean to sound snippy and normally the reply is oh absolutely not, sorry.